Dating Disputes and Criminal Charges: How Arguments Become Arrests 

Arguments happen in relationships: emotions run high, voices get raised, and doors get slammed. 

But in Texas, what starts as a heated dating dispute can quickly turn into a criminal charge, and, sometimes, an arrest. 

If you’ve been accused of assault involving a boyfriend, girlfriend, or dating partner in the Brazos Valley, it’s important to understand how quickly things can escalate and what you can do to protect yourself. 

How Does an Argument Become a Crime? 

In Texas, assault doesn’t require serious injury. A person can be charged with assault if they: 

• Intentionally or knowingly inflict bodily harm 
• Threaten someone with imminent bodily harm 
• Make physical contact that is considered offensive or provocative 

If the people involved are in a “dating relationship”, the charge may include a family violence designation, even if the couple is not married or living together. 

And that designation can significantly increase the long-term consequences. 

What Is Considered a “Dating Relationship” in Texas? 

Under Texas law, a dating relationship involves two people who currently have or in the past had a romantic or intimate relationship. 

This does not have to be long-term. This does not require cohabitation. 

This means that disputes involve: current boyfriends or girlfriends, former dating partners, on-and-off relationships, and ex-spouses can all fall under family violence laws. 

Why Arrests Happen So Quickly 

In many dating dispute cases, police respond to a 911 call. When officers arrive, they must assess: 

• Whether someone appears injured 
• Whether there are visible wounds or marks 
• Statements from both parties 
• Signs of emotional or physical distress 

If officers believe there is probable cause that violence occurred, they are often required to make an arrest, even if both parties decide not to press charges. 

In Texas, once charges are filed, only the prosecutor can dismiss them. 

Common Scenarios That Lead to Arrest 

Dating disputes can escalate into charges in many different situations, such as: 

• Grabbing someone’s arm during an argument 
• Pushing or shoving during a heated exchange 
• Throwing objects 
• Blocking someone from leaving 
• Scratching or minor injuries 
• Threats made during a fight 

Even if the incident seems minor, the legal consequences often aren’t. 

The Consequences Can Be Serious 

A dating violence charge can lead to: jail time, fines and probation, protective orders, firearm restrictions, permanent criminal record, impact on custody or future family law cases. Additionally, future charges can be enhanced to felonies if prior family violence findings exist. This is why it is critical not to treat these cases as “just a misunderstanding.” 

What to Do If You’re Accused 

If you’ve been arrested or accused during a dating dispute in Texas, you should: 

• Never contact the other party if a protective order is in place 
• Avoid discussing the case on social media 
• Never give statements to police without an attorney 
• Contact a criminal defense attorney immediately 

Early legal guidance can make a significant difference in how your case is handled. 

The Bottom Line 

Arguments happen. But when emotions turn into accusations, the legal system moves quickly and the consequences can follow you for years. 

If you’re facing charges after a dating dispute, you need someone who understands Texas family violence laws and knows how to protect your rights from the start. 

Contact Spiegelhauer Law to discuss your case and learn your options. The sooner you act, the better you can protect your future.